Tennis has been a great passion of mine for over 25 years. During this time, I’ve had the pleasure of playing with many wonderful partners, but one in particular has left a lasting impression on me despite our brief time together.
I met James Lewis on my first day at Barnes-Jewish Hospital, Washington University in St. Louis, where I took my one-year advanced surgical pathology fellowship. He was an ENT pathologist with a sunny smile and uplifting spirit. Faculty member and anatomic pathologist, Dr W, introduced us and informed me of Lewis’ passion for wheelchair tennis. We instantly connected, both in the clinic where Lewis became my mentor, and on the tennis court.
Lewis invited me to join him at the local park that weekend to play and I gladly accepted. It was a hot day and I remember watching him transfer from his SUV into a wheelchair to retrieve another wheelchair specifically designed for tennis. I offered my assistance, but he firmly declined, saying, “Gang, my dear friend, I appreciate your willingness to help, but as long as I can do it, I prefer to do it myself.”
Once on the court, we began practicing before transitioning into games. With slightly different rules for wheelchair tennis, I initially thought I would be playing casually. However, Lewis quickly set the standard, “Show me your true skill on the court! Don’t play half-heartedly or fool me; otherwise we may as well call it a day!”
Of course, I didn’t want to disrespect Lewis, so I gave it my all as we played for two and a half hours in the blazing sun. Lewis was relentless, chasing down every ball and undeterred by my training in the sport. His competitive spirit deeply moved me and I found myself humbled and enlightened by the experience.
Despite his disability and injuries from a car accident, Lewis excelled both on the court and academically. When we first met, Lewis had recently been accepted into Washington University Medical School. He’d graduated with honors and completed a rigorous residency and fellowship, independently maneuvering through the hospital and performing tasks many would have deemed impossible.
As the weeks progressed, Lewis and I continued to play tennis together. The more time we spent together, both in the clinical space and on the tennis courts, I identified his unwavering determination in all aspects of life. This was highlighted by the many trophies he’d achieved for local, regional, and national tournaments – something I was very moved to see proudly displayed in his home.
For Lewis, completing medical school and training was a testament to his resilience. I quickly learned not to ask to assist Lewis as it was clear he wanted to be seen as my equal, not as someone defined by their disability.
Outside of tennis, Lewis was a wonderful mentor and pushed me to grow as a physician. He meticulously reviewed each diagnostic report I prepared, guided me on differential diagnosis, and ensured my writing was clear and concise. When I caught a bad cold and wanted to fulfil my duties, he firmly refused, “Gang, you’re not well! I can’t let you serve today, I have a responsibility to both you and our patients.”
I’m very fortunate to have had such a profound friendship and mentor. Lewis taught me strength, confidence, and perseverance, in all areas of life – as well as an understanding that the most meaningful moments often arise from the challenges we face.
After completing my fellowship, I began my journey as an anatomic pathologist while continuing to play tennis in my free time. During particularly grueling matches, I often recalled those hot summer days on the court with Lewis. These memories gave me the strength to push through exhaustion, channeling the spirit he instilled in me. You could argue this is how I went on to achieve four Eastern finals and two national championships.
As time goes on, I continue to use this confidence Lewis instilled in me to confront any setbacks that come my way. Regardless of life’s challenges – be it pareplegia, blindness, or a particularly challenging caseload – I strive to embody tenacity and courage. With a brave heart, I will face whatever the future throws at me, just as Lewis did.
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